How to find the Mother lode of your MARTYR

First, find the fork in the road where you veered off the path of self-respect and self-love into the land where other things and people matter more than you.  

Then, back up.  A little more.  More still.  Stop. Breathe.  Take the other path. 

Close call, eh?

NOTE TO SELF: Music touches the soul

Music touches the soul. The music we listen to sets the tone for our day, creates a vibe in our environment, has us feel a particular way.  Choose your music consciously. Does the music you listen to sing of heartache and break up?  Does it have you feel righteous? or sad? or lonely? Or does it have you feel joy, and playfulness and fun? Use music as a tool for generating energy.  

DO THIS: Pick a theme song that makes you want to dance with abandon.  You're extraordinary.  Listen to music that has you remember and feel that truth.

With love and gratitude, Dafna

Today's Inquiry: Blame

Blame is a great teacher.  Look where you are blaming another person or your circumstances and see where you can take deeper responsibility.

Note to Self: (thanks SS) If you think you're talking too much, you are DEFINITELY talking too much. Stop and WAIT (ask yourself: Why Am I Talking?)